The Most Precious Gift:
Time has made a change in me.
It’s simple but carries the profound weight of experience, growth, and transformation. Time is the silent, steady force that shapes us all that we take for granted and we often don’t realize it until we take a moment to reflect.
In the rush of life, it’s easy to overlook and underestimate the value of time. We get all caught up in work, social obligations, and the endless waste of time on the foolishness as we call it. But then at some point in our lives, we take pause and look back and realize that time is the most precious gift we have. Unlike any other resource, it cannot be bought or replenished. Once a moment passes, it’s gone, making every second, every minute, every hour an invaluable treasure. Then we suddenly feel like we have a sense of urgency, an urgency to get stuff done, to do those things that we have always wanted to do. Why? Because we thought that we would have enough time.
The Gift of Presence: There’s nothing more valuable than being fully present with the people we love. We are filled with distractions and forget to be present in the things that matter becoming rarer and forgetting that being present is a precious gift. It’s in these moments of connection like sharing a meal with family, taking time out for a friend, or sitting quietly with someone who needs a listening ear, those experiences of just doing the simple things are the true essence of life. Those moments are the jewels that time gives us, moments that shape our relationships and leave lasting imprints on our souls
The Gift of Self-Care: A lot of times we overlook the importance of taking time for ourselves. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential. A few minutes of meditation, indulging in your favorite things to do, or simply doing nothing is ok too. I often sit quietly by myself in a state of gratitude and take in all that is around me, being thankful for what I have, and having peace in my spirit is what my present moments are. This allows us to recharge and show up as our best selves for others.
The Gift of Reflection: As we move through life, reflection becomes a vital practice. In our fast-paced world, we rarely take the time to reflect on where we’ve been and where we’re going. Taking time to reflect allows us to learn from past experiences, recognize our growth, and chart a course for the future. It’s in these quiet moments of introspection that we gain clarity, wisdom, and direction. Time has taught me to value these reflective moments, for this has allowed me to see and appreciate things from another lens
The Gift of Giving: One of the most meaningful ways to use our time is by giving it to others. These things come in the forms of volunteering, mentoring, or simply spending time with someone who needs support can have a profound impact. The act of giving our time is an oath to our care and compassion, and it gives you that feel-good in your heart knowing that you have made someone’s day, and the appreciation and gratitude from someone who perhaps “needed your time” is the greatest thing. It lets others know that there are still people out there who value the lesson of giving and helping others. I’ve seen and experienced how the time we give to others is returned to us in the form of fulfillment, connection, and a deeper sense of purpose.
The Gift of Living in the Now: The greatest gift of all is the ability to live fully in the present moment. It’s easy to get caught up in worries about the future or regrets about the past. I sort of had those experiences, only starting to find and fulfill my true purpose, and unapologetically at that, I often asked myself, do I have enough time? It's a thought that stirred up anxiety in me, but the truth is, the discovery of purpose is a gift, and time becomes an ally when we align our actions with that purpose.
But the magic of life happens right now.!! Embrace gratitude, curiosity, and love and experience life’s richness to its fullest. Do I have enough time? The answer is simple Yes, if I use it wisely
Time has made a change in me. It has humbled me, taught me lessons I never knew I needed, and reshaped my perspective on what truly matters. The relationships I’ve nurtured, the self-care I’ve embraced, the self-work I put in, and the reflections all have shaped me into the person I am today. I still have a lot to learn as I go along, but that’s ok, I welcome those lessons.
"Time is what we want most, but what we use worst." — William Penn
Looking back, I reflect on the subtle yet profound ways time has altered the paths in my life Some of these experiences are ones that I just knew would break me, and would not rebound from, in my eyes, it was the end. But those experiences became the very ones that strengthened me. The dreams I once chased have evolved, and new more meaningful passions have taken root. I’ve learned to trust in the process, honor my journey, appreciate the wisdom that comes with each passing year, and embrace it.
As time continues to march, I’m reminded that change is not something to fear, but something to welcome. It’s through these things that we grow, evolve, and ultimately become the best versions of ourselves.
In the end, the greatest gift we can give and receive is time—time well-spent, time well-loved, and time well-lived.
How has time changed you, and what moments do you cherish the most?
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With love and empowerment - E